3 steps to find out what is important to you
The words passion, freedom, vision, purpose, (the list goes on) are bantered around in the new age personal development arena, the leadership and even parental courses.
What do these bantered words really mean to us?
What is important to you?
There are three steps to find out what is important to you. for many years I was a life coach, long before coaching was a industry like we know it now. Over that coaching time in my life a program was born. It evolved from my clients and seminars in the 80’s and 90’s.
I have summarised these steps as I believe we have more clarity and the ability to grasp concepts and personally change quickly and easily in 2015, compared to the 80’s and 90’s.
Check them out below!
The first step is to take two minutes and write out what you are tolerating in your life right now.
For example a toleration a might be:
1. Noisy Neighbours
2. One of our family members always being angry
3. Not always tithing money
Someone in one of my courses wrote she tolerates ugly towels in the bathroom.
Ask yourself if you can do anything about each toleration. If you can do it, if you can’t LET IT GO and see what happens.
Step number two is what do you need in your life.. NEEDOften we don’t want to use the word need as we associate it with being needy.
BUT if we are not getting what we need we will be tolerating something. A NEED is more a feeling and a noun.
1. To feel included might one of your needs
2. To be understood might be another personal need
3. One of my needs is to be clear, clear in my thinking4. One of my clients wrote that security is one of her need
Once we orientate ourselves to having our needs meet by eliminating our tolerations we will automatically have our values operating.
This third step is about whats important to you, what do you value in your life
Values are more doing words they are words that you can almost see every day.
1. To be accomplishing
2. To be loved, this value is of course the basis of humans values
3. To be learning is a common one in this age compared to the 80’s and 90’s
4. To be connecting or to be accepting with people and ourselves is another common Value nowadays in comparison to the 80’s and 90’s.
I will be creating a new product for the market for this process….
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